And another thing....

How do I love someone or not love someone? I've found I don't have much in between with these feelings. I either do or I don't. I can't say I ever stop loving. I may not have the person in my life still. I may find that I simply don't love someone any longer. But, more cases than not, I still love. Maybe not love as strongly as before, but I still care very deeply. It's just the way it is for me. I can feel what I want to feel...it's my feelings. Others can feel the way they want to...it's no skin off my nose. I feel what's right for me.